Essays

Narrative non-fiction, that curious beast of a term, serves as a catch-all for the sort of factual writing that demands more than mere presentation. It beckons the writer to weave a tale, to drape the stark, naked truth in the vivid fabric of literary technique, transforming the mundane into something that sings with life. Gone are the days of dull recitations, lined up like obedient soldiers in a chronological parade. Instead, the narrative non-fictionist plunges into the depths of plot, character, structure, tension, and drama, crafting a tapestry of reality that grips the reader’s very soul.

Within this realm, the facts remain steadfast, rooted in the soil of existence, yet they are draped with the stories that twist and turn like a country road under a heavy sky. Enormous parts of ourselves are defined within the slender confines of fleeting moments, those slices of life that often become personal essays, reflections that ripple with the weight of experience. The personal or creative nonfiction essay is not merely a suggestion; it is a necessary pilgrimage for any writer who dares to explore the landscape of the human condition. In the act of reading Creative Nonfiction, we stretch our understanding of humanity, expanding the boundaries of empathy and insight.

“Instructions for living a life.
Pay attention.
Be astonished.
Tell about it.”

— Mary Oliver

At its core, the creative nonfiction essay pulsates with heart, guts, and a gritty resilience that mirrors the struggles we face. It is a reckoning with the truth, demanding that the writer not only engage with their subject but also grapple with the form itself. How do the words on the page take shape, like clay in a potter’s hands? Is there a structure that can cradle the chaos, a form that can guide the narrative while allowing it to blossom? These questions loom large, for they influence character and voice, shaping the very essence of the work.

What kind of vessel does one choose to contain this raw, unfiltered reality? How does that choice enhance the narrative, infusing it with depth and meaning? It is crucial to remain vigilant to these inquiries, for different types of essays carry different burdens, each crafted to accomplish its own distinct purpose, each a mirror reflecting the myriad truths of our existence. In the end, it is this delicate dance between form and content that breathes life into the written word, inviting us to confront the profound complexities of our shared humanity.

Short Essays

  • Frustration and interruption are the twin specters that haunt the artist’s journey, lurking in the shadows, waiting to pounce when least expected. It is an uneasy dance, one that requires a certain resilience, a willingness to grapple with the chaos that inevitably arises. In fact, I would posit that frustration—along with its first cousin, disappointment—is not merely an obstacle but the very essence of the artistic process. It is the crucible in which the true mettle of an artist is tested, where the raw material of experience is forged into something tangible and meaningful.

    This journey of creation is not a linear path adorned with glittering highlights; it is a winding road fraught with pitfalls and potholes. One does not simply glide from one dazzling experience to another, collecting accolades like a child gathering smooth stones from a riverbank. No, the process of creation demands that one confront the difficult, the challenging, the downright maddening. There is a certain sweetness that comes only after tasting the sour, a truth that resonates deeply in the heart of any artist worth their salt. The struggle, the frustration, is what makes the triumphs feel profound, what gives them weight in a world so often unyielding.

    What I find particularly illuminating is how an artist’s response to these frustrations becomes the measure of their vocation. It is not enough to simply endure; one must learn to hold oneself together through the storm. This is where the real work lives—amid the uncertainty, the self-doubt, and the cacophony of external voices. It is an exercise in humility, an acknowledgment that the act of creation is, at its core, a deeply personal venture that requires an unwavering commitment to one’s vision.

    For those who aspire to be professional artists or makers, there exists a sobering truth: rejection is not merely a possibility; it is a certainty. If you cannot stomach the thought of your creations being cast aside, if the sting of criticism cuts too deeply, then you are done before you even begin. The art world is not a gentle place; it is a battleground where only the brave dare tread. To forge ahead, one must cultivate a certain detachment from the work itself. Once the creation leaves your hands, it is no longer yours to control. It becomes a living entity, subject to the whims of the world, and your part in its existence is complete.

    This is the crux of the matter: if you truly love your work—if it is a passion that courses through your veins—you will embrace the “shit sandwich” that often accompanies it. The act of creating is not a glamorous endeavor; it is messy, unrefined, and fraught with challenges. Yet, therein lies the beauty. The most humbling choice you can make is to devote yourself to this craft, to peel back the layers and uncover the hidden beauty that resides within the struggle.

    In the end, it is through the frustration, the interruptions, and the heart-wrenching disappointments that we find our most profound truths. It is a journey that demands everything and offers little in return, yet, if one remains steadfast, the rewards—however elusive—are worth the price paid. The artist’s vocation is not merely to create but to endure, to find solace in the act of creation itself, and to share that beauty with a world that often forgets to look closely. In that, we find our purpose, our calling, and ultimately, our humanity.

  • Every work of art needs a spine— a sinewy thread woven through the fabric of creation, an underlying theme that whispers from the shadows of the mind, nudging the artist forward, a guiding star for the wandering soul. This spine does not need to be apparent, nor does it require the audience's approval. It exists primarily for the creator, a silent companion in the tumultuous journey of bringing something new into existence. Without it, the art risks becoming a flotsam of thoughts, drifting aimlessly on the surface, vulnerable to the tides of distraction that swirl around our chaotic lives.

    In the depths of this creative process, the spine emerges as a lifeline, a resolve wrapped in the quietude of night, where doubts and fears tend to converge, each shadow a specter of inadequacy, whispering that vulnerability is a burden to be shunned. Yet it is within this very vulnerability that the spine finds its strength, for it dares to challenge the boundaries of what is permissible to share.  

    Art becomes an act of rebellion, a defiance against the constraints of societal expectations, a bold proclamation that what lies within must be bared to the world, even when it trembles in fear. What is permissible to share? This question hangs heavy, like the weight of a thousand unspoken truths. Yet the artist knows, deep within the marrow of their bones, that the most profound connections are forged in the fires of honesty, in the rawness of experience that transcends the mundane.  

    Thus, we must trust our own madness, that untamed spirit that flickers like a sparkler 

    in the darkness of our thoughts. This madness does not lead us astray; rather, it guides us to the heart of our art, the essence of our being, where the spine meets the flesh, where the underlying themes pulsate with a fierce heartbeat. To trust this madness is to embrace the chaos, to dive into the depths of our own psyche, to explore the jagged edges of our existence and emerge with something iridescent, something that resonates with the truth of our being.

    In the end, it is the spine that anchors us amidst the storm, reminding us that every brushstroke, every word, every note, is part of a larger narrative, a testament to our struggle, our triumphs, our flaws. And in this dance of creation, we find not just art,  

    but the very essence of ourselves, and in sharing it, we invite others to join us on this wild, glorious ride, a journey through the labyrinth of our minds, where madness and clarity intertwine, and we discover that, indeed, we are all beautifully imperfect, each spine a testament to the power of creation, the audacity of existence.

  • I knew something was different when I met her. She felt like a lucid dream, the kind that wraps around you like a warm blanket, where you can see and understand everything that is happening, yet you know it is just a fleeting illusion, temporary and ethereal. The moment she smiled at me, something inside me stirred, and I let myself hope, just a flicker of belief that somehow we would be together, as if the universe could be coaxed into making it so.

    But I’ve grieved her loss since the last day I saw her face, a strange kind of mourning for someone who’s not dead. It lingered like a ghost in the corners of my mind, haunting the spaces where joy once flourished. People always say the sign of an evolved brain is the ability to hold two dueling beliefs at one time, yet there’s nothing harder than trying to cradle grief and hope in the same breath. It’s a specific kind of torture, a burden I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.

    Everywhere I turned, I felt the weight of an ominous being trailing behind me, a shadow that wouldn’t let me experience life to its fullest. The combination of grief and hope became a leaden anchor, dragging me into depths I couldn’t escape. I was stuck in a daydream of the fullest life I could imagine, yet every time I reached for it, the reality of her absence would pull me back, reminding me of the void that had taken root in my heart.

    I saw her in the faces of strangers, caught glimpses of her smile reflected in the strangers' features, like a cruel trick of the light. I felt her in the breeze that dried my tears, a gentle caress that whispered promises of what could be. I heard her in the distant laughter from other rooms, the sound echoing in my mind like a melody I couldn’t quite grasp.

    She filled the spaces between tasks and appointments, an essence woven into the fabric of my daily existence. I thought of her in those quiet moments when sunlight painted streaks of gold on the wall of my bedroom, illuminating the memories that danced in the air. On summer nights, when loneliness crept in like a thief, I would listen to the crickets sing their mournful song and wonder if I’d ever listen to the crickets with her by my side. Or were the crickets pleading with me to move on, to let go of the ghost that lingered in the chill of the evening air?

    I would close my eyes, letting their symphony wash over me, knowing they could sing of every possibility. They could weave dreams of futures untold, yet I would never give her up. She is a part of me, stitched into the seams of my being, and I clung to that connection with a ferocity that surprised even myself.

    Days turned into months, and months into years, yet the ache remained, a constant reminder of the life that could be. I lived in a world tinted by the colors of her absence, each moment tinted with shades of longing and regret. Yet, even as I navigated this strange terrain, I held onto the hope that one day, in some distant corner of the universe, our paths would converge once more.

    And so I wandered, half-awake in this dreamscape, where her laughter echoed in the silence of my heart, and where every shadow held the promise of a reunion. It was a bittersweet existence, a tapestry of grief and hope, and as I walked through this life, I learned to accept the weight of it all. For it was in that acceptance, in the delicate balance of despair and possibility, that I found the strength to keep living, even when the world felt impossibly heavy. Because you don’t give up on love.

  • Love, you have to know that no matter how confused I am, or frustrated, or even angry. It doesn’t mater, I’m never leaving your side. You are my girl! Always.

  • I’m not leaving the poems up for now, but I just wanted you to see I understand 🐚🦞🥯 now, although the bagel had me for a bit. But, this a public establishment and no such such cat play shall be permitted! It’s easier for me see these things when I’m not overwhelmed and can think. It was just a lot to process since I assumed you had peaced out, I was very confused. I understand you don’t want anything implied or alluded to that might out you. Got it H!